Not everyone has to be your everything. Find the right tribe for each vibe. Let go of expectations. We can not expect all our friends or family members to be there for us 100%. Sometimes all they can hold space for is 40% of you, and that is ok. You can manifest the right people to give you the support you need. The right teachers, healers, coaches and friends; that can support you fully.
When you experience an uplevel, sometimes you want to be able to share everything with everyone, or you may desire your friends or family to grow with you. BUT sometimes your partner, your family or your friends can not give you what they do not contain, or know how to give.
We have to let go of expectations that everyone has to be our everything. Let go of expectations that people will be able to support you fully. We must find the right tribe for each vibe. Which means, we can receive from many directions. From many people, to fully feel supported. Some may offer 50% of support, some may offer 80% of what we need at the time. Let go of expectations, that it has to come only from ONE person, it doesn’t!
We can have a tribe to support us on our journey. And we can not make someone grow. We can not take someone’s pain away, what we can do is give love and compassion. We can meet them where they are with compassion, and let it be what it is. Some of us may grow apart from old friends/family, and grow closer with new friends and that is all apart of the journey.
Just let go of judgement, and do not TRY and force others to SEE what they can NOT see. It is not their time. And it may not ever be, Its NOT your job to FIX anyone.
The ONLY person you can heal or transform is YOURSELF. We can guide someone, but we can not CHANGE someone.
Let go of expectations, be real and take the journey one step at a time. We are all unique and will grow at different rates.